You ask, "Okay, so why the big difference? Why is church planting at large stalemated but the churches you are planting rock!?

I'm sorry for the mainstream terminology, but it's called 'Branding.' In my time launching and leading churches, growing from 5 to 7,500, we served and served and served.  With each bottle of water that was given out, with each pack of M&Ms, with each pack of Juicy Fruit gum, with each toilet that was cleaned, and with each act of genuine service, the works of Jesus were being done and we were telling people, "This is a practical expression of God's love." "We are Christ-Followers." "We are from the Cincinnati Vineyard."

When the works of Jesus are done the results of Jesus soon follow. We were re-defining some old words to have completely new meanings. Instead of agreeing on a given word, we were, and this is very important, "showing what we were telling."  For the rest of our lives, this is the way we will communicate, redefining words with our actions in a positive way. 

We did the above a LOT.  Many will agree with our message and our methods but they make the mistake of missing what I call the 'Law of Inundation.' In order for this to "work," we must plaster the ever-living daylights out of our communities with these acts of Jesus.