Step Three:
Let your natural curiosity and ability to notice guide you.

In other words, if you approach connecting with people in a left-brained way, you will never succeed at this.
Those who are best - in fact, the only ones who really succeed at this are the ones who play this naturally. The idea of being an “unnatural” friend is an oxymoron. And being a friend - making a new friend - someone you can serve and hopefully somehow make more successful is exactly what you are doing here.

Look on this site in the not too distant future for tips on how to make others successful.

There is an art to this, but there is a natural inclination in your heart already to serve others in this way already, regardless of your personality. When we all connected with Jesus to begin with, there were many new desires planted in each of our hearts at least in kernel form. One of those was to serve others. Jesus makes reference to us being ones who take up our crosses to follow him. One of the most natural ways we all do that is by forgetting about our own success and focusing on the success of others.

May you knock the proverbial ball out of the park this week as you make many around you successful beyond measure!